Can You Blog If You Are A Private Person?

createherstock-a-summer-day-neosha-gardner-3I know. Why am I making this so difficult? I am looking at why I have a hard time blogging my thoughts without editing myself first.  I started thinking, while I was trying to go to sleep, can I blog if I’m a private person? Part of blogging is sharing some of yourself with others in order to be genuine.

I know there has to be a way to say something but not share all your life. I’m working on this so I can feel good about blogging and not editing myself. I think if I can come up with a theme that is more specific vs. just my life, I can do it!  We shall see I guess.

What are your thoughts? Can you be a blogger if you are private? Please share your thoughts.

#DamitasLife2018 #blogging #noediting #lifeasiknowit #blogginglife2018



Life As I know It!


Making A Commitment Without Edits

createherstock-a-summer-day-neosha-gardner-5As I think about this blog space, I struggle with how much of my life to share. I think if I’m not willing to share myself and be transparent, what am I doing blogging? But I keep being drawn to writing and this blog space is where I want to practice my writing while exploring different things. But what I realize is when I think about something I want to write, I start editing what to say.

As a writer how do you get past this? I would like to hear your suggestions on how to get my creativity going and not edit myself before I even type one word.



My Friday Situation…

My Friday situation is good this week. I had a full week and it was good for my personal goals and my business goals.


I  attended our local Greater Austin Black Chamber luncheon. The topic was The State of Black Business. I was able to re-connect with people and meet some new entrepreneurs. The rest of the week I did work on my business. I’m re-launching so I been working on sponsorships and just day to day operations. It ain’t easy!!!

But my fun was today. I use art as my self-care and this morning, I met a friend and we did our art projects. Believe it or not, my art is getting better. I have said it before, it does not look like three-year-old art :). It is so relaxing to sip on coffee, talk and let my creativity go wild. I am participating in the #WorldWatercolorMonth this month, so I was able to create some pieces for that.

I hope your week has been better. With all the continued tragedies around the country, to relax a bit and take care of myself and my mental space, art always does the job for me. I still pray for our country and people who are affected by the loss of their loved ones.What have you done for your self-care lately?

Have a great weekend see y’all next week.

#damitaslife #selfcare #artjourney #arttherapy #yearofart #worldwatercolormonth #relaxation
Be Creative Every Day!


On My Way Back

Life… My Friday Situation


I have been away and I have missed writing about what’s happening with me in my life. Every day, as I think about writing a post, I  decide “I will do it tomorrow.” Tomorrow comes and I don’t write.

I have been reading other blogs and thinking about my neglect of my own blog but my motivation has not been there. I had to create a social media plan for writing stories and doing videos as part of my business  and decided why not add my personal blog to my calendar to ensure I get something out at least once a week. So here I am.

I’m not sure what you will read here, but I can tell you it will be about my life. Lately, I have had to adjust to taking care of my elderly mom with my sister, re-launching my business, manage my mental health, keep my marriage strong and find time to be me. I’ve been busy.

I will do my best to have something posted weekly. I’m going to spend some time researching topics and telling stories about my life. I should have enough content to share :).  So hold on, I will be back and thanks for sticking around and reading my blog.

#damitaslife #blogging #writing #mfs2016

Be Creative Every Day

If We Were Having Coffee…

If we were having coffee, I would tell you that I’m doing some major changes for the new year. I want 2016 to be a good year for me and my family. This year has been hard on me and I’m just now moving ahead with what I need to do.

Beach imagesIf we were having coffee, I would tell you I’m tired and I need a vacation. But because I’m building a business, a vacation is not on my books right now, but I do plan to have a beach vacation in 2016. I feel I’m running on empty most of the time, but sacrifices have to be made to have two businesses.

If we were having coffee, I would tell you I’m looking forward to some down time the last week of December. It is the only way I can start my new year with a fresh perspective. I have things I want to do, but in order those things to happen I have to be physically and emotionally fit. Christmas

If we were having coffee, I would wish all you a happy holiday and a great new year! I hope you have enjoyed our coffee time!

#coffeetime #damitaslife @meintheatx @paigeturna @lifemusicatx @marylinnen @sunflower_vir


Be Creative Everyday!


If We Were Having A Glass Of Wine…

  I would tell you I had a good week but I’m feeling drained right now. I work at a co-working space called Orange Coworking! It is a wonderful place for me to meet people and get a lot of work done. They celebrated their six-month birthday with cake and prizes.

  I started off the week with our Monday Morning meetup at Orange. It is a group of entrepreneurs who discuss and brainstorm ideas or issues brought to the table. It is a great way to start the week. 

If we were having a glass of wine I would tell you that I’m balancing two businesses. It’s hard but I don’t have to return to a job I would not enjoy. I like controlling my day and being free to work the way I choose. So I’m not complaining just have to figure out my down time because I’m always working or thinking about work.

If we were having a glass of wine I would tell you I attended a E-Women Network Wisdoms Circle. I was a bit nervous at first because I didn’t know what to expect. But I learned a lot and I left with tools I can use to grow my business. The women were great and we were able to connect in the fact we all had one challenge we could get ideas to help us move ahead. What I like is you present the challenge then the other women give you ideas. You cannot speak during this time. You then take those ideas and use them as you see fit. I’ve got some work to do! But it’s all good.


If we were having a glass of wine I would tell you I think I’m finally relaxing on the radio show I do every Friday morning. It’s called the Breakfast Club. I have been a co-host for about at least four years but it takes me a while to feel comfortable in order to show my personality. I have to trust others and my surroundings. I live “on guard” all the time.

Well, I think I have drunk at least half of the bottle so I will see you next week. Have a great weekend!

@damitaslife #ifwewerehavingaglassofwine @lifemusicatx @paigeturna @meintheatx @marylinnen #wisdomcircle #meetup #networking #wine #coworking @orangecoworking

Photo: Google

Be Creative Everyday


If We Were Having A Glass Of Wine Right Now…

  I would tell you I started my day out at the radio station doing my Breakfast Club show. It always gets my Friday going because I get to talk with people that call in and my co-host and the producer always bring the laughter. 

  If we were having a glass of wine I would tell you I headed to my sisters. We had a celebration/lets catch up lunch with our friend and Ujima’s Graphic Designer. We meet at least quarterly for lunch or coffee. I was tired but I always enjoy being in the company of friends and family. We had a great time at the Steeping Room. I always order my favorite mango tea and the cucumber sandwich. Yum!

If we were having a glass of wine I would tell you we, I mean, they shopped and I got too tired and it was hot. Another reason I could understand the people waiting in line for the latest iPhone but I couldn’t do it!

Well I have had enough wine for tonight. But before I go I want to thank for sharing this unique way to blog about your day. He in turn found Kate Goes Global blog that does it it with coffee. It a great technique to use. It was easy for me.

#damitalife #wine #blogging #dayinthelife @ujimamagazine #lifeadventures #friendship #steepingroom #ujimamagazine7yrs

See ya soon.

Be Creative Everyday!!